I was pulled over the other day and as a black American it can be a dangerous situation with cops. But throughout the whole situation I only answered questions that I knew were neutral and remembered my right not to speak and to ask why for every step. All that to say I was regulated the whole time. And even afterwards, I thought to myself - wow if that happened a year ago my emotions would be everywhere and I wouldn't be regulated for 2 days after. So I'm so happy to see my

I got married. And then I got divorced. And when I got divorced, I was sure that was it for me. As a man, when I get invested like that and it ends unexpectedly, it takes a lot out of me. I used to feel like that with break ups back in the day. But this was a marriage- of 8 years. So it definitely took a lot out of me. And by the way, I was comfortable with not being in another relationship ever again. I was going to focus on my career, my kids, and my family. Maybe even get

Let me set the stage. It was pre covid era and I was excited for my graduation. Finally the time had come for me to wear that cap and gown and walk the podium for my people to be proud of me. I was so excited. So I went to the finance office to get cleared then they hit me with the news- my father had not paid the last semester fees like he had agreed with the finance department to do. We're talking 90k. And graduation was that weekend. Let me tell you I felt my heart drop to